at Valley View and condensed a lot of experiences into one Sunday morning, each of these things has been said and done by well-meaning and good Christian people at different churches. We all know that in marriages that are going badly, it is rarely just one person’s fault; both people have a part to play in the problems. The same thing is true in congregations. All of the members, and especially the leaders of a church, contribute to whether things go in a more positive or negative direction. So